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Wednesday 7 August 2013

Problems and you

Hey guys this is from my articlestring account felt like posting it here.


               Everyone of us face problems, different for everyone but they are their in our life. (We actually spend more time in  thinking about them than solving them). But you know, now a days if you ask someone how to solve your problem mostly you will get , 'compare your problems with people who don't have a home, who are injured in an accident' and so on.
              That may make you feel like facing your problems with all force and defeat them. But that makes me feel like, oh! I'm so weak, I cant face these small problems where people are facing so big problems. May be there will be someone like me reading this. So I'm writing this for only people who have this faulty thinking (like me), who think they are weak cause they are trying hard to face such small problems.
              I always thought like that but yesterday, I thought more about this & I got it. You know that we always say that, "don't compare yourself with anyone else everybody is different" etc. that's the answer. Don't get it?
              If everybody is different, so are their weak points & plus points. If I gave you the best accessories and a chance to play tennis, then also you cant play like 'Nadal' because he is Nadal. Sure he had given his whole life to the game but that's one of the points to think about.
            So the problems you face are actually personalized for you by the creator. they are difficult for you even if other people can solve them easily. I'm not saying that you should make big issues of small problems (I have that habit ). I'm just saying that don't compare them with other people. may be someone has big problems than you ( or small also), but think about it this way, whoever you are today is because of the environment surrounding you. And problems are also their because of the environment so its a fair game. May be the problem you have is big for you so solve it be better & be ready for the next one which will come; cause that's life.
             So go on face it solve it, because it is a special test for you by God, and it is perfect for you to become more good. Learn something from this test because next will may be more difficult but if you will solve one at a time it will become really easy, so this time try it by this way if it doesn't work you can always change your style, and ask for help from your friends & family.